OK, not really. I’m not actually pimping myself out. But I did pick up a new friend this weekend! And a girl!
Aren’t y’all proud???
But more on that in a quick sec, because I totally forgot to tell you that I guest posted for Corey over at Learning Patience on Friday! She is seriously one of the sweetest gals I know–she tells me I inspire her–and always has something positive to say. So scooch on over to her sparkling new blog and give ‘er a little love! She’s a sweetie pie! Plus, her birthday’s coming up, and a little birdie told me she’s having a kick ass giveaway later this week . . . #justsayin
OK, now to the pippin’! 
After a wild Friday night (Target run, dog walk, frozen pizza, wine), I needed a day of rest on Saturday, so I decided to mosey on up to my rooftop to sit in the sun and read my book. In case you forgot, here’s the awful view I’m dealing with:
I hate it. Hurts my eyes.
So up to the roof I went, sunblock and favorite summer read in tow. Side note: if you haven’t read this book, you need to. NOW. (<–yes, for all you 50 Shades fans, those are SHOUTY CAPITALS)
Favorite.book.ever.
Anyway, as soon as I got on the roof, I scoped out a spot for myself and noticed another chick flying solo, also sunning herself and reading. But she was doing it way better than me: she had wine.
Duh. Why didn’t I think of that.
After being stupid and shy for a bit (and reading my book), I figured I might as well say hi. I mean, chick brought wine to the deck. She’s obviously cool. So I told her I liked her style, and we were instantly friends. Such good friends that we went to dinner that very night and then shopped and had another dinner yesterday! YAY for girlfriends!
Although I’m still pretty sure I’m the oldest person in DC (swear to God, I haven’t met anyone over 25!), it’s still fun to have girl time, to talk about boys and clothes and neuroses with someone who just gets it. I was missing that, and I didn’t even know it! Not that I don’t have awesome friends in my work #BFFLs!
Someone better not be taking my place! Do I need to kick her ass? (after having a glass of wine with her of course)
NEVERRRRRRRRR!!!!! and you don’t drink wine . . . but the principle is the same
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I think a blogger meetup in DC is order. I was going to tag people, and then realized this isn’t twitter.
lol that is a fantastic idea!!!
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Sounds like I need to get my hands on this book! Thanks for the rec.
I’m reading a book right now by an author I usually like, but the book is super booooring.
As for friendlies, the best way I’ve made friends in SoCal is through Junior League. We started planning social events separately from “official” JL events, and that’s where people loosened up and we all got to know each other better. I also like the whole college alum group thing, but I haven’t made any close friends that way — just acquaintances. Junior League all the way
Gosh so jealous! I am so happy for you, this whole post makes me feel so freaking glad for you! Yay!
I LOOOOOOOVE Fortune Rocks! Read that book on my honeymoon (wow – almost 10 years ago).
Yay for making friends! (although, I find it really hard to believe that you have a hard time making friends!) Most of the friends I’ve made in the past 8 years have been through work (thankfully, I work with some really awesome people!) or at the gym/from running — oh, and of course from blogging. I admit, I really hate putting myself out there and will let my self-esteem get the best of me, but it’s almost always worth it.
I agree, its really hard to make friends as adults, but i’ve managed to make quite a few friends through running groups. It’s great bc we run together, and then go drink together!
Look at you being so social and awesome. I was going to write pimpin’ but refrained. Oh wait, just did it.
any girl who is drinking wine and reading on the rooftop is definitely OK in my book. good call on making friends with her! and that’s pretty awesome that yall ended up clicking right away like that, i LOVE when that happens!! <3
Totally going to check out that book! I’m so excited for you!!! YAY for meeting new friends
. I have a hard time with small talk too. So annoying haha.
Great job making a new friend!
I have a difficult time with it, as well. I’m so shy. I try to smile and look like I’m open to chatting, but my boyfriend says that because I’m so shy I don’t look as approachable as I might think. I’ve made a few friends at work (mainly people who are really outgoing and pull me into their circle. LOL) Otherwise, blogging has been a great way to meet like-minded people who turn into great friends!
That’s so great that you started up the conversation with the stranger holding the wine. I find that hard also and usually wait for someone to speak to me! But a very confident friend once said to me, ‘What are you worried about? A stranger is just a friend you haven’t met yet’!
I love u girl! Thanks so much! We need a new pic of us ASAP! Blogging an amazing story tonight and I have u to thank!
Xoxo Skype date this weekend?
it’s awesome when other grownups admit that grownup things are hard. i don’t have the kind of job where i show up and hang with the same people every day, so i definitely have to make friends On Purpose- and it is a pain in the ass. and i’m not good at it. i love this post too on the subject, so apparently there are at least three people who have to put “make friends” on their to-do lists!
good on you for putting in the work!
http://www.jordylizblogs.com/2012/05/intentional-friendships.html
It’s tough, but it has to be done! Good luck! XO
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